LOVE ME BY THE HOUR

2024

LOVE ME BY THE HOUR

a performance about paid intimacy
2024

Upcoming performance: 

January 1, 2024

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27-03-2026

19.00

Theatre Zuidplein, Rotterdam (International Community Arts Festival)

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

27-03-2026
19.00
Theatre Zuidplein, Rotterdam (International Community Arts Festival)
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

07-03-2026

19:30

Theatre aan het Spui, The Hague

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

07-03-2026
19:30
Theatre aan het Spui, The Hague
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

31-01-2026

20:15

Verkadefabriek, Den Bosch

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

31-01-2026
20:15
Verkadefabriek, Den Bosch
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

20-01-2026

20:00

The Barn, Haarlem

With Dutch Sign Language Interpreter, Wheelchair Accessible, English Subtitles

20-01-2026
20:00
The Barn, Haarlem
—With Dutch Sign Language Interpreter, Wheelchair Accessible, English Subtitles

19-12-2025

20:30

Stadsschouwburg, Utrecht

With Dutch Sign Language Interpreter, Wheelchair Accessible, English Subtitles

19-12-2025
20:30
Stadsschouwburg, Utrecht
—With Dutch Sign Language Interpreter, Wheelchair Accessible, English Subtitles

15-03-2025

20:30

CC Amstel Amsterdam

Wheelchair accessible, English subtitles, Dutch Sign Language interpreter

15-03-2025
20:30
CC Amstel Amsterdam
Wheelchair accessible, English subtitles, NGT sign language interpreter

07-12-2024

20:15

Maaspodium Rotterdam

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

07-12-2024
20:15
Maaspodium Rotterdam
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

30-11-2024

17:00

De Nieuwe Vorst, Tilburg

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

30-11-2024
17:00
De Nieuwe Vorst, Tilburg
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

28-11-2024

20:30

Post theatre Arnhem

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

28-11-2024
20:30
Post theatre Arnhem
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

31-10-2024

20:00

De Lindenberg, Nijmegen

English surtitles

31-10-2024
20:00
De Lindenberg, Nijmegen
-English surtitles

09-10-2024

19:30

Theatre Concert Hall Tilburg

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

09-10-2024
19:30
Theatre Concert Hall Tilburg
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

10-09-2024

19:30

Cultural Centre Jan van Besouw, Goirle

English surtitles

10-09-2024
19:30
Cultural Centre Jan van Besouw, Goirle
-English surtitles

04-09-2024

17:00

The New Forest

Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

04-09-2024
17:00
The New Forest
-Wheelchair accessible, English surtitles

There are currently no performance dates, but this show may be played in the future. This performance can also be booked. Visit contact on if interested.

LOVE ME BY THE HOUR

It sounds like a false fairy tale: the woman in need of rescue and the dirty male. But still that is the dominant image of sex workers and their clients in our society. Because of the taboo and limited representation around paid intimacy, there is very little room for the diverse perspectives of the people who are themselves part of the world of sex work. A world that - they know - can be captured in anything but a single image.

From quickies and pure desire to special long nights and intimate relationships. What makes the relationship between sex worker and client unique? Based on experiences of sex workers and their clients, a much broader picture of sex work unfolds in the performance LOVE ME BY THE HOUR. Beyond the cliché of the red light, we turn the spotlight on those for whom intimacy - for whatever reason - is a matter of supply and demand. With red ears, but no blush on the cheeks, this musical movement performance is an ode to the many forms of paid intimacy.

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In every theatre where LOVE ME BY THE HOUR is played, an exhibition can be experienced. This exhibition consists of the following parts:

The audio installation The work of subjectification (2021) by artist Pennie Key. Key describes the installation as ‘an honest, non-judgemental documentation of men and masculinity, based on the artist's observations and experiences’. Key's works largely deal with power dynamics, sexuality and gender. A significant part of her research comes from practising martial arts and various forms of sex work.

Photo exhibition of Reimagining Sex Work. This exhibition introduces you to all aspects of the lives of people in the sex work industry to counter stereotypical images (which often come with a negative connotation). Reimaging Sex Work is a feminist activist collective made up of sex workers, researchers and scholars.

The Educational Table. Want to learn more about sex work? At the exhibition, there is a table with all kinds of information about sex work. For example, a book about Lisette (sex worker, also performer in LOVE ME BY THE HOUR) and a media guide from Reimagining Sex Work.

The music for this performance was created by Lucia Zemene aka Lotsy! Want to listen back to the songs? Click here!

DIRECTION
Otto Calmeijer Meijburg
CHOREOGRAPHY
Ulrike Doszmann
GAME
Alexandra van Ameijde, Marloes Dingshoff, Eric Groot Kormelink, Rowy La Haye, Lisette Mepschen, Lucia Zemene

ARTISTIC DIRECTION

Sanne Arbouw, Merel van Lieshout

BUSINESS MANAGEMENT

Ad de Wolf

SCENOGRAPHY

Sjaan Hofstede, Pleun Verhees

TEXT EDITING

Storm Vogel

MUSIC

Lucia Zemene

PHOTOGRAPHY

Rox Klijn

FILM

Paulus Aarts

PRODUCTION ASSISTANCE

Jasmijn van Meurs

TECHNIQUE

Joep van Zoelen

COMMUNICATION

Mariska van Schijndel

FORM

Anna Kindt

WITH THANKS TO

Het Zuidelijk Toneel, Schouwburg Tilburg, Prisma, Storm Vogel, Fred Jacobsson

FUNDS

Fonds voor Cultuurparticipatie, Kunstloc, Gemeente Tilburg, Cultuurfonds Brabant

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OTTO CALMEIJER MEIJBURG
Otto Calmeijer Meijburg graduated from the Physical Theatre department of the Folkwang University of the Arts in Essen (DE) in 2020. Hen works as a performer and theatre maker in Germany and the Netherlands. In different constellations and contexts, Otto explores how movement theatre, a love of science fiction, live music, and going to extremes in play and improvisation can come together.

ULRIKE DOSZMANN 
Ulrike Doszmann (born 1970) came to the Netherlands to study at the Fontys Dance Academy in Tilburg. After graduating in 1998, she started creating her own performances. Ulrike combines this with working as a dancer and performer for, among others, dance company Vloeistof. She has been teaching Movement Classes at Fontys for the past three years.

The theme of the show is paid sex. It is a world that is still strongly taboo and therefore very little known and understood. The sex worker's perspective has received scant attention in recent years - as in the recent series Sex Angels on NPO3 - but still the stereotype of ‘the poor woman who needs to be helped’ and/or the criminalisation of the sex worker is persistent. Indeed, the client's perspective is hardly even heard, so the stereotype of ‘the dirty male’ is still painfully present.

Speels Collectief spoke to several sex workers and clients in its preliminary research for the performance. What recurs in all their stories - and thus in the performance - is that a genuine search for finding and intimacy is paramount. Sex work and making a strong commitment to a person need not be mutually exclusive. This does not mean that the performance romanticises sex work. We recognise that not everything in that world is beautiful: trafficking in women and forced prostitution are a problem. However, because of this problem, paid sex is often only associated with harshness, lust and violence. As a result, the many beautiful, personal stories of connection and intimacy get lost. LOVE ME BY THE HOUR gives those lost stories a stage in theatre.

This is a Company performance. The Company is reconstituted for each performance. To do this, the artistic team looks for talented people with diverse perspectives that fit the theme of the performance. In cooperation with the team, this Company creates a high-level performance and goes on tour throughout the Netherlands.

People can also be selected for the Company company from Speels Collectief's Community. The Community is open to all and is a place to meet on the floor. With them, Speels Collectief plays performances on a regional level. This is always in collaboration with students from arts and social studies programmes.

Are you a programmer and interested in this show? Check out here the Book Us page for more information.

Apt theatre about sex workers and their clients - Scenes

THEATERRANT | Mixed abled company shows that sex work is an honourable profession and so is use.

BRABANTS NEWSPAPER | Sex worker Lisette and client Eric offer an insight into the world of paid intimacy.

BRABANT GROUP | Sex worker Lisette from Tilburg has warm ties with her clients.

NOS | Sex worker Lisette from Tilburg has warm ties with her clients.

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